One of the perks of fatherhood that I enjoyed four times is coming up with a name for each of our babies.  I find naming things (or babies for that matter) pleasurable and meaningful.  I say this because it was also the case for the 19 new species of predatory mites described by my wife for her Masteral thesis.  I loved giving names to her newly described mites and she was very generous in allowing me to recommend names for her to take into consideration in the final phase of her work in Taxonomy.  It sure looked like she did all the difficult parts (in both thesis and babies) and I get to join in the fun part of giving names.  Lucky me!

It was not all fun though because there is also the pressure of coming up with a beautiful name each time so the kids won’t be ridiculed (or ashamed of it) when they grow up.  You know how cruel kids can be when teasing classmates or friends (or enemies).  But again, the challenge only brings more excitement to the process.

To make it even more challenging, we did not settle for a baby name that only sounds good or a favorite.  It also has to satisfy these rules: two names for each baby, letters sum up to 13, second name ends with ”ele”, and of course meaningful for us or the family.  Many parents settle for names or variation derived from their own or a relative (usually the grandparents), a popular person or those they admire, same first letters with one or both parents, etc.  Our rules came to be during the naming of our first baby and we just applied them consistently to the next three.

Rica Emmanuele.  Rica was the name of a girl in an International School whose photo I happened to get before we got married.  You know, when printing companies recycle materials, yearbook images can end up at the back of pads of paper or in wrappers of printed materials.  Being in the academe at that time, I see much of these.  Rica became meaningful when I saw in her the face of my own child…with my girlfriend then as the mother.  I took that as one of the “signs” that she is the one for me.  So I married her.

Emmanuel means “God is with us.”  The feminine derivative Emmanuelle and Rica would sum up to 14 letters but we recognized that our last names totaled 13 letters together so we decided to remove one “l” and then adopted the rule about 13 letters.  We just figured 13 is a lucky number for our family.

Joseph Leonele.  Joseph was taken from my wife’s name.  We were both in the academe then and my wife was also pursuing her graduate degree.  Her mentor (and I consider her mine, too) is Leonila.  Our admiration and gratitude for her was so much that we named our second child Leonele after her.  The derivative was intentional to make it masculine and the two names to sum up to 13 letters.  When the “ele” pattern emerged for our two kids, we adopted it as another rule.  This rule also made our children’s second names unique as their spelling does not follow the commonly adopted derivative of their respective names.

Andre Ezekiele.  Ezekiel, we found out from my mom’s prayer materials after she passed away, is the patron saint of cancer patients.  It means “God strengthens”.  It was meaningful to us because my mom died before our third child was born.  Andre sounds at first to be a derivative of my name but turned out to mean “manly” or “brave”.  It was a perfect complement to Ezekiele in terms of meaning and together conforms to our rules of naming.  It also matches the personality of our child.  Even at his present stage as toddler, we already see a headstrong and physically tough yet adorable adult in him.  We have associated this to certain factors during pregnancy, which will be elaborated in a separate blog by my wife.

Nadine Ysabele.  Our fourth child came about at a critical juncture in our family life.  It was when we need to hope for something more than what we have then.  And Nadine, which means “hope,” together with Ysabele, derived from Isabel that means “God is bountiful”, was a manifestation of that desire. 

With the rules we followed in naming them, it will be obvious for the sharper observers that these four names belong to siblings.

While writing this blog, I went through the history of our family, recognizing certain milestones in our parenting journey…all manifested in the names of our children.  Apparently, we were quite successful in the choices for the names of our babies for they are not only reflective of our family’s history but also of our children’s individuality.

Although the primary intent of this blog is to provide a firsthand account of our journey to our kids, I hope readers can also benefit from knowing how we did it…in our own unique way.

Useful links:
http://www.babyhold.com/
http://www.babynames.com/

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In Bequeathing a Dangerous World to our Kids, I argued for a common ground for all parents…the proposition that we do not want our children (and theirs) to inherit a harsher world than what our generation faced.  Climate change is contributing so much to this increased unpredictability and instability, and while it affects everyone, the impact is unevenly felt between rich and poor peoples as well as between developed and developing nations.  

Peoples in island or archipelagic nations like the Philippines are the most vulnerable to the impact of rising sea levels.  In as short a time as half a century, considerable land area in coastal towns and cities could be swallowed by the sea if present trends continue.

We’ve heard of local politicians crying victim of climate change, and looking to the culprits (foremost are the developed nations) for restitution.  While I do not dispute the fact that the developed nations had the biggest contribution to greenhouse gas problems and that they have the moral obligation to make amends and at least cushion the impact of climate change, I do not subscribe to victim mentality and finger pointing to hide our own failings. 

Recognizing that although we, the people in island and archipelagic nations have but little impact in reducing (or increasing) greenhouse gas emissions, we would still get the brunt of the impending calamity.  Therefore, it makes sense to take all and any actions to hopefully avert it, as it is indeed a matter of life and death for us.

Let us leave it to those with the capability to address the technological and political solutions such as clean energy sourcing and international pacts, respectively, among others.  But there are those that we can realistically do at the household and community levels that would make a dent in the global scheme of things.

Here’s my list of concrete actions for parents to help mitigate climate change:

1. Reduce energy consumption.  Modern living relies so much on electricity, which is basically derived from burning fossil fuels- the main contributor of carbon dioxide in the atmosphere.  Reducing our electric bill does not only make an immediate impact on our wallet, but a long-term global impact on human well-being as well.

The following are examples of easy to do energy conservation tips at home:

1. Turn off lights, computer, fans and appliances after use; unplug appliances as electricity is still consumed even when turned off.
2. Use energy efficient bulbs and appliances, as well as CFC-free cooling units.
3. Whenever possible, share the use of appliances.  Listening to music, watching television and eating together (to lessen the need to reheat food) not only makes for an efficient use of energy but promotes interaction and togetherness in the family as well.  In my family, we also pack ourselves in one room when the need to use the air-conditioning unit comes, especially during summer months.  Now that’s bonding time that is both fun and economical.

2. Eat less meat, more vegetables.  Meat production consumes more energy per calorie than crop production.  Energy derived from corn can be more efficiently used if fed directly to humans than consumed by animals that would in turn be eaten by humans.  Livestock production is also a major contributor of methane, a greenhouse gas, to the atmosphere.  The health benefits derived from eating less meat and more fruits and vegetables is an additional incentive.  Eating habits and preferences are developed young so now is the time to influence our kids' future health.  But it's never too late for everyone else who are determined to remain healthy and positively contribute to earth's health as well.

3. Buy local foods and products.  Depending on distance and crop, energy expenditure to transport imported foods (and products) may exceed the energy used to produce them.  Buying locally is not only ecologically sound, but helps improve the lives of local communities as well.  Furthermore, food security is also enhanced by making sure the locale can adequately support its population.  Shorter transport times of goods may also translate to less packaging materials used, which means less energy expenditure.  

4. Travel less, travel efficiently.  Besides moving closer to the workplace, technological advances that made it possible for certain types of work to be performed offsite not only dramatically improves productivity but significantly reduces fuel consumption as well.  Carpooling, cycling and walking to work also helps; the latter two are healthy lifestyle choices as well.

5. Educate, communicate.  Talking to our kids about the above ecologically sound and healthy practices and the impact it has on the global scheme of things is last but certainly not the least of concrete actions we parents can take.  Communicating and campaigning about what can be done in the community, workplace, church, schools and other local institutions to help moderate climate change is also within our capacity as parents. 

We also must speak up in various forums, cast our votes, write blogs, and send letter/emails to those concerned to let the world know where we stand on this critical issue that affects the well-being of our kids.  

We must push for bigger reductions in the carbon footprints of those who spends energy the most, particularly in the United States and other more affluent societies.  This is particularly pressing as Americans' belief in global warming is declining.

We have the most to lose on this issue if the world continues in the path of business as usual.  So speak up and speak out!  The world needs to know!

This International Day of Climate Action, I am hearten by the relatively good number of activities in the Philippines as reflected in the map below.

View Actions at 350.org

I just hope that the movement can be sustained locally and globally for as long as it takes.

SCIENCE BEHIND 350

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Losing a child is said to be the greatest tragedy of all. Many of us couldn’t stand to even think about it. It is just unnatural to outlive one’s offspring.

However, leaving our children in a world that has become more unpredictable and inhospitable than that which we grew in could be equally tragic, if not more so.

It speaks of our failure to prepare for them a better life…our failure to halt the continuing legacy of passing the bill for the next generations to foot.

The deluge that befell the Philippines in the past couple of weeks reminded us of what we have been conveniently ignoring. The signs were already recognizable for many decades and the truth already known to our generation. And yet climate change was a mere inconvenience, the existence and inevitability of which we deny or push aside to free us to continue the previous generations’ unbridled pursuit of economic prosperity above all else.

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Everyone, including the government, was caught unprepared and still wonders how such a relatively weak storm as Ketsana (Philippine name is “Ondoy”) unloaded a month’s worth of rain in only six hours and how typhoon Parma (or “Pepeng” locally) strangely lingered in the northernmost part of the Philippines for about a week and making landfall thrice.

Photo by amagwili513 @ news.webshots.com

The untold suffering and damage caused by these unprecedented weather events have been reported and blogged about many times over. What needs emphasizing further is the peculiarity of these weather events, plus the human folly that exacerbated the problem (among others, deforestation, poor land use planning and implementation, mounting garbage and irresponsible disposal, not to mention poor disaster risk management that resulted to unnecessary loss of lives).

The unpredictability of recent weather events had been linked to changes in global temperature. In addition, weather extremes (heat waves, droughts, floods) had recently been experienced around the world more and more.

Worse, the brunt of climate change’s negative impact would fall on the poor people and poor nations. Their vulnerabilities would become more apparent once food production is adversely affected as productive land either become deserts or be engulfed by the rising sea levels. Food scarcity would result to food prices rising beyond the reach of many and food riots could ensue. In such a scenario, life would be risky and even the rich might not be spared from the turmoil.

We may differ in how we assign importance to climate change. But our role as parents should put us in a common ground. We do not want our children (and theirs) to face a harsher world, not if we can do something about it. And we can…yes, we can still leave the world better than how we found it.

Let's do our part. These might be helpful: 10 solutions for climate change, kids vs global warming, global warming facts & figures.

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